I also recognize that it's not that we don't have humour, but a large part of that there's a big rightwing narrative that what we say is scary anger and that their angry rants going "SJW's are so stupid!!!!" is "humour" somehow

I dunno I guess I'm just frustrated it feels like some leftists buy into that narrative and they play the no-humour role cause they might feel like that makes them more left? I dunno