Indieweb: the Good and the Bad: https://biglizardbooks.net/?p=72
@xandra i think the lack of existing tooling for Doing Indieweb Things is a problem too? i started rolling my own indieweb site a few years back and ended up getting burnt out because there's so much you need to do to make micropub work properly, and then there's webmentions and webpush and indieauth and so on and so forth
being able to drop in one django plugin or express package or whatever to get working micropub would've been a game changer
Yiff.Life is oriented towards those in the furry and LGBTQA+ communities.