general relationship and mh stuff 

I hate hate hate that "you must love yourself before you can love anyone else" crap. it's just part of how society gives tons of advice to one type of person who is probably obnoxious but everything caters to them, even though that advice is actively harmful to the opposite sort of people that keep to themselves and are scared with low self-esteem etc

why don't we hear "you deserve love even if you don't feel love for yourself". like seriously!!

general relationship and mh stuff 

it's also such a cishet thing like to assume that our life experience is we've been in tons of relationships already at a young age and need to learn how to slow down as we get to know ourselves. like that's super not how it is for the vast majority of queer people lol

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